Great Movie

So My big sis suggested we watch a movie named "the other man" I just finished watching it and i have to say it was good. I don't wanna give it away if you havent seen it, but oh well. Lisa is happily married to her husband they have a good time together, they have a daughter together, a house, careers, just a normal happy life, they really love each other. On the other hand, her career allows her to travel to nice places like Paris and London, she met Ralph and for 12 years her and Ralph are deeply in love, they laugh, have fun, play together and travel together, they even have usual spots, like their usual hotel in London, the Lake. She has a double life and she love both men, neither one has any idea there is anybody else besides them, her normal life is in new york and Ralph is alright with that its like a long distant love relationship. But she dies and her husband finds out about this double life after he goes through many many changes, he realizes she loved them both and he accepts it. She never disrespected either one, she never even felt like she was doing anything wrong, it didn't even look like she was doing anything wrong to me. She was just lucky enough to have two loves in one lifetime at the same time,gave her all, enjoyed it and it worked!

I know this type of stuff happens in real life, but we always hear the negative side of it like she was busted and the husband divorced her and the mystery man left her, or some other negative scenario. It just makes me wonder could normal everyday woman live like this and it turns out all right, its kinda like the polygamist men with 12 wives in one house, but in this case they don't know about one another. I envy her in this movie. What do you think?????