Have you ever noticed when you're single and lonely and just about to lose your mind, thats the time you can't find a man and a man can't find you? Some of us sit up late at night reading how to books, the bible, relationship books, astrololgy books etc. (Not necessarily me) Dining alone or with the girls, or just simply ordering take out, losing weight, gaining weight. Just lonely and feeling a little bit less loved.
BUT......... when you stop thinking about it and just live life without a better half someone finally finds you, you find each other? How about when you finally get in a nice comfortable healthy relationship and your crush finally notices you. Life is truly crazy!!
That brings me to this point. Why do we want what we can't have? its funny to me when i wear my ring guys approach me more and they actually see the ring. They want what they know they can't have, what is it, do they want to see if they're worth me jeopardizing my good relationship for a hot fling with a sexxy stranger? I also wonder are the guys and women who approach married people better off in life? they must have it all together to approach a 'married' woman and think i'd go for anything less than a stable man. I was just wondering
OMG Yes! This has happened to me before. It sucks. I think a person wanting what they can’t have is the biggest reason. They think if someone wants you you must be worth wanting. Handling what the person’s man/woman cant or wont is an ego boost I guess. IDK who knows, they should teach a class on this in psychology.
ReplyDeleteSheena Bouquet
"As long as you have a want, you have a reason"