Swinging

A friend of mine got a call the other day from a ex-boyfriend, they talk periodically so it wasn't like a total surprise he called. Anyway he called this time to say hey how you doing and would you like to go to a swingers club? Her mouth hit the ground, she couldn't believe this mofo had the nerve to ask her that, they haven't been a couple in years and the last she heard he was involved and so is she, and what makes him think he can just call her up and ask a question like that, what do men be thinking? why would he think it is ok to ask her to go to a swingers club with him? I mean he hasnt been inimate with her in years. All i can say is men.....